Is our gentleness known unto all men?

In Philippians 4:5 it says, "Let your gentleness (moderation in KJV) be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand." Are we known as gentle people? Do people like to be around us because of our brokenness and gentle ways? In Psalm 18:35 David said, "Thou hast also given me the shield of thy salvation: and thy right hand hath held me up, and thy gentleness hath made me great." God certainly has been gentle with all of us. When we have deserved to die, God has given eternal life through His Son. In the last part of Romans 2:4 it says, " the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance." Are we following God's example of gentleness and goodness?